yes i was one of those that 'left' and came back.
Personally i have been at latoc more than 3 years.... and during that time one's cup runneth over with doom at times...... the more you know.... sometimes the harder it gets....

remember this IS a bit of a DOOM site.... even though some of us are prepping.... there are many stages to it.
The first stage is information assimilation.
Then you tend to personalize it and connect it to your own personal reality.... and make an action plan.
From there you tend to work to both physical, mental and psychological preparation.......
Then you tend to step back from the personal and start to see the BIG PICTURE......
and in a way..... sometimes THAT is when it become most difficult..... when you are living in two worlds.
The BAU (business as usual) world ..... and the latoc world.
I can only say sometimes your own pathway takes you in unexpected directions. For myself..... I did not want to be HARD... I do not support the philosophy that you need to be thick skinned and armed and dangerous to be a survivor or thriver in LIFE AFTER THE OIL CRASH.
Once in a while this site goes through stages where asshats become a higher concentration than usual and well people like me fall off the wagon. In hindsight deleting one's account really is the only recount at times..... it WOULD be useful if one could 'deactivate' rather than delete....
SO sorry for the long post but seriously... your perception that there is something inherently 'wrong' with this site would be just an observation specific in it's timing when a lot of people probably hit the same toxic asshat overload at the same time. I do believe a cascading effect happened as well.... you know.....all your favourite posters left so it possibly added to the whole.
Can is suggest read for a time..... and WELCOME to latoc. I have learned so much from Matt's site and to be completely fair.... i would say a significant number of members here are NOT crazy nutcases or anything ...... in fact i can suggest go here...... as a start!
http://www.doomers.us/forum2/index.php/topic,32174.0.html